A Beautiful You~

A young female client of mine met up with me for coffee over the weekend.

During the coffee session, she was lamenting about how much her boyfriend neglected her, his irritable traits and other unfavorable details. It sounds really familar,doesn't it?

Many times in life, we always demand more time, more gifts and more attention from our partners.
Have we truly provided the same for them?

Dearest M, if you happen to chance upon this Blog..
I think it will do your relationship good if you can ponder about the question i posted above.

Guys, being boys and social creatures..
Go..let them run free with their buddies..let them go booze, be silly and catch all those football matches.
Be cool with it and don't check on him every hour/minute :)

Yeah, Damn!!
Most prob you're gonna feel lonely without his accompany. I truly understand this..
But wait!
Don't feel sorry for yourself. (The feeling is just hellish, i know)

Keep yourself busy by acquiring a new skill or pursue a hobby.
Wear your favourite dress + highest heels and strut the orchard road like a supermodel *winks*
Go on a short detox to clear out impurities and pimples.
Make the effort to excerise and lose 1 or 2 kg.
Wear your bikini and go for a good swim

Most guys will be grateful for the short breakaway with their buddies and it kills 2 birds with 1 stone with your new body, new skills and new friends :)

See, actually..self-actualization can be attained w/o him right?

But what if the good never happens?
Remove your slippers and smack some sense into him ;)

If it doesn't works..
Then..It is time to reconsider the relationship, dear M..
But fear not..with the new body, new skills and new friends, you have nothing to lose!
And most importantly, I will be there for more coffee sessions *winks*

Hope you feel better after this :)

And remember, You are Beautiful~

~hugs~