Mes Désirs

Je veux partager avec vous un désir de la femme sur l'amour.

Elle ne demande pas d'argent ou de l'or, mais un sans prétention est.
Elle ne demande pas de visages charmants mais un coeur qui est fidèles et vrai.
Elle demande non grand renfler mucsles mais un protecteur quand elle est faible.
Elle ne demande pas de Maître ou des Doctorats, mais la connaissance pour partager pour une vie.

Elle m'est :)

The title, 'Mes Desirs' in french means My Desires *winks*

Faith.Love&Hope

The departure thereafter has been difficult and hellish..
Painful it may be..it didn't kill me, yet it make me stronger :)

It allows me to grow in wisdom and courage..something which I apparently lacks.
'God works in mysterious ways.' Matthew, my colleague comforted over lunch.
Yes, He surely did!!

Blessed with a change of team and new boss, the change was a welcoming one & I love it :)
The departure also brings new friendships and deepens existing ones.

Peiyu, Huiying, Shiyun, Jay, Andrew, JJ, Edmund, Melissa, Alvin, Claris and a dozen more..
And thank you Matthew for covering all my work duties in my absence..
I am deeply humbled & grateful with the outpour of love from all of you :)

No longer do I dwell in self pity nor sadness, for I've found my peace & love.

I was just sharing with jay moments ago my enthusiam to start class in Oct and my dream of becoming a school teacher :)
Hey Children, give me another 5 years to quit the rat-race..and we will celebrate Children & Teacher's day together!!

You've become part of History..
May you find peace, love and a sense of belonging too!

A friend once asked me if I have developed any phobia or fear out of this..
And the answer is strangely..No!!

The Maker tenderly heals & prepares..
When He closes one door..He opens another..
Have faith in Him..all Children of God
For the Father never gives a stone when his Children ask for a fish.

Let's continue to love the World just like Jesus did :)

Love all of you so much!

*Big Hug*

A Beautiful You~

A young female client of mine met up with me for coffee over the weekend.

During the coffee session, she was lamenting about how much her boyfriend neglected her, his irritable traits and other unfavorable details. It sounds really familar,doesn't it?

Many times in life, we always demand more time, more gifts and more attention from our partners.
Have we truly provided the same for them?

Dearest M, if you happen to chance upon this Blog..
I think it will do your relationship good if you can ponder about the question i posted above.

Guys, being boys and social creatures..
Go..let them run free with their buddies..let them go booze, be silly and catch all those football matches.
Be cool with it and don't check on him every hour/minute :)

Yeah, Damn!!
Most prob you're gonna feel lonely without his accompany. I truly understand this..
But wait!
Don't feel sorry for yourself. (The feeling is just hellish, i know)

Keep yourself busy by acquiring a new skill or pursue a hobby.
Wear your favourite dress + highest heels and strut the orchard road like a supermodel *winks*
Go on a short detox to clear out impurities and pimples.
Make the effort to excerise and lose 1 or 2 kg.
Wear your bikini and go for a good swim

Most guys will be grateful for the short breakaway with their buddies and it kills 2 birds with 1 stone with your new body, new skills and new friends :)

See, actually..self-actualization can be attained w/o him right?

But what if the good never happens?
Remove your slippers and smack some sense into him ;)

If it doesn't works..
Then..It is time to reconsider the relationship, dear M..
But fear not..with the new body, new skills and new friends, you have nothing to lose!
And most importantly, I will be there for more coffee sessions *winks*

Hope you feel better after this :)

And remember, You are Beautiful~

~hugs~