Man Best Friend

28.09.2009

I chanced upon Azmi's photos in facebook. Saw Pinkie and Lucas, his 2 beautiful Chihuahuas.

Something stirred within me. Somehow, Lucas reminds me of you.

1.30am-I peeped under the bed, hoping to catch a glance of you dreaming away.

But the empty bed space reminds me that you're resting in eternal slumber.

23.12.2008

I woke up and you were nowhere to be seen.

Nike bounced around happily, totally unaware of your absence.

I called out for you but reality sets in.

Nevertheless, I called Kenneth and demanded for you to come home.

Kenneth said, " It's too late, my dear! She is already gone.'

Tears swelled and choked my voice.

I sobbed terribly into the phone and tell him how much I want you back.

Kenneth listened and consoled, 'Cry and grieve for all you may, for the death of a pet is never an easy one.'

22.12.2008

'Do you want to reconsider?', my vet asked.

'It's alright, I dont want her be in daily misery. Please proceed.' I calmy said.

I left you behind without saying goodbye and kiss on your white muzzle.

I wonder what were your thoughts then?

Sometimes, Goodbye is easier when there are less emotions.

Thankyou for being with me from 1994 to 2008.

Thankyou for being ever so forgiving, loving and gracious towards all..

The long walks and runs, the silly hide & seeks and the fun at the playground..I remembered them all.

Everytime I look into Nike's eyes, I know she can never replaces you.

When I longed for you, I closed my eyes and thank God for this wonderful friendship you gave.

Have fun on the green meadows with other furry kids.

Till I see you again..

JiLi

1994-2008

Quotes

Speak tenderly to them. Let there be kindness in your face, in your eyes, in your smile, in the warmth of your greeting. Always have a cheerful smile. Don't only give your care, but give your heart as well. -J.S Bach

Dare to love and to be a real friend. The love you give and receive is a reality that will lead you closer and closer to God as well as those whom God has given you to love. -Henri J. M. Nouwen

The whole being of any Christian is Faith and Love...Faith brings the man to God, love brings him to men. - Martin Luther

The desire of love is to give. The desire of lust is to get.- Ed Cole

The proof that you love someone is not that you have warm affectionate feelings toward them. The proof is in your actions, your words and your sacrifice, your willingness to give the best of yourself and your willingness to get nothing in return. -Katherine Walden

Life at 35,000 Feet

I dedicate this post to you, my dear friend.

Congratulations to the start of a wonderful flying career, Alvin!

I remembered your passion and the sparkle in your eyes when I share with you stories of 35,000 feets above..and the disappointment when God closes one door and opens another one in Jetstar :) Trust in His wisdom that the Father know the best for His children!

Finally, you will be getting your wings soon!

The things you will learn in coming weeks will probably be fixing of cocktails, various airline codes, safety evacuation procedures, first aid, etc..

As much as these trainings equip you to be a certified crew, there are some others that you must remember dearly..

1. Humility
An efficient crew is knowledgeble with his inflight duties, but it is humility that makes him a good crew to clean up baby pukes, poos, lavatory mess and ensuring his passengers & fellow crews' needs comes before his own.
Be both Good & Efficient Crew.

2. Integrity
Onboard the plane, crews work in confined spaces. They are unique individuals with own set of personality. Be tolerent when someone dont do things the way you want them to be.
When tempers flares for whatever reasons and unkind words are spoken or exchanged, keep it within that specific flight.
Learnt it and do not take it personal.
Develop good flying enthics by not joining in the zapping game.
Refrain from gossip games, whatever goes around only comes around.

3. Appreciation
It is within crew culture to give thanks.
Say 'Thankyou' whenever a task is accomplished. (At end of flights or when the galley crew fix an ad-hoc request for you)
Apologise..when mistakes are made.
Eat the humble pie and say 'Sorry'..to save yourself the painful zapping.

As naggy as I may sound, a few of my batch girls didnt made it the first 6 months.
Ended up bitter after paying the bond, quit and left for good.
All because they wasnt aware of the above that were untaught during training.
They thought it was only glamour and a fitting kebaya to walk down the aisle.

Take plenty of photos and eat cusines around the world.
Enjoy winter, spring, autumn and summer!
Come back and share with me your own stories at 35,000 feet :)

Best of Luck, Sonny!
May He grant you mercy journey for every flight!